A few pictures from our day to day....
I have always wanted a tankless hot water heater, so we did not have the arguments over how long a shower one can take. However, all three of my boys love taking showers. They would get in there and stay forever. Jacob usually takes his shower first thing in the morning ~ easiest to tame his bed head that way :-). He has come to really enjoy them...maybe too much. This is usually the scene.
He totally gets relaxed, dozes off, wakes up when water gets cold and then doesn't want to wash his hair!
One of the buzz words around our house right now is responsibility. Taking responsibility for your actions and not shifting the blame. I am not quick to bail my boys out of a jam. My opinion, if they create the problem, they figure out how to deal with the problem. For example, one of the boys could not find any of his 3 pairs of shoes. It was time to leave for school and he had no clue. So, I told him he better find shoes. This was all he could find. As much as I hated it, I sent him to school wearing these.
Yep, two totally different shoes and they were both about 2 sizes too big. All day he wore them. I think it was hardest for me because of 'what others would think'. However, I realized why should I care, if my child was learning a huge life lesson. He survived the day and he has been able to find his shoes every morning since.
Just so happens each of the boys have learned those big lessons recently. One of the boys was black balled from some neighbors recently because of some of his actions. He was not wanted around and it hurt to watch it but that is just a consequence of poor choices. You have to own those choices and earn trust back.
Another one of the boys decided to wash his BBs in the kitchen sink. He unfortunately did not think the process through very well. About 20 BBs ended up in the garbage disposal. After unplugging the disposal, he found out very quickly how nasty it is to stick your hand down in the disposal to fish out tiny little BBs. I guarantee you he won't do that again without proper precautions.
Usually all of these incidents end with my boys telling me how I hate them, what a terrible mother I am and how I have ruined their life. I have just come to realize that when my boys voice that, it usually means I am doing my job exactly right!!!
Joseph loves to sit and color. I am amazed at his pictures. I think he finds it very relaxing after a long chaotic day at school.
Benjamin and I recently did a science experiment on density. We put oil, water and corn syrup in a jar. Want to guess which was heaviest and sank to the bottom? Then we put in 4 different things: a cork, piece of ice, blueberry and rock. It was cool how the rock was the only thing to penetrate each of the layers. They all floated on different layers based on their density.
Fall is setting in. The mornings have been in the 40s! Perfect for flag football season that starts this weekend!