A selfie of us at the Elvis movie
School starts Aug 25th. Football 2 a days started on Friday. Summer is quickly winding down!
A selfie of us at the Elvis movie
School starts Aug 25th. Football 2 a days started on Friday. Summer is quickly winding down!
Just some more summer stuff!!
We celebrated this kids 13th birthday on Sunday!!! Our third teen ager in the house! Pretty low key birthday, went out to breakfast and had gifts and cake/ice cream
Random summer photos!!
A recent hike!
Things have recently shifted in a huge way for me! I am no longer doing my work from home stuff. The company has decided to move their production to California (this decision still baffles me and everyone that worked in house...). I am thrilled to be done! I had wanted a shift but the pay, flexibility and ease of work was hard to give up. However, I am not exploring financial coaching. God is opening up some amazing doors with this opportunity. I will share more as things fall into place!!
Mid July! Time marches on! I came across some more graduation pictures.
I am also way late posting, but we recently celebrated Ben's 18th!!! He is now a legal adult! He is still holding tight with the restaurant job. He did help during a 5 day stint at a fireworks stand over the 4th. A friend told me he killed it as a sales person! I really think that is a gift/talent he has and needs to explore it further.
Wow, the last month has been a whirlwind. Can't believe I haven't gotten pictures uploaded since graduation!!
A lot has happened in last 30 days. School is out, Ben graduated and my mom is here for the summer.
We are trying to find out summer groove! Joseph is attending some summer school for last half of June and first 10 days of August. He goes M-Thurs from 8:30-11:30, so that is becoming my work time. (I have cut my hours almost in half, because I never seem to get as much done during the summer). Jacob is all over the place with sports camps, work, school workouts, basketball tournaments and friends! He is continuing with driving hours and officially has 30 out of 50 hours. He is scheduled to get his driving permit towards end of September. This is one momma that will be glad when this kid can drive by himself.
Ben's graduation!! We had a great weekend. We had a party Friday night with one of his friends. Both of my parents were here, as well as brother and sister and my brother's two kids. (The Ohio clan couldn't make it, minus one niece that tried but the stand by flights just did not line up!! It was weird to have the grandsons outnumber the granddaughters, a first!!) We rented an airbnb for 3 nights and was nice to all be together. Lots of pictures, with the exception of just after graduation.
My dad with the grandkids
Bens' graduation! I am so ready for that kid to be done with school and start discovering his passions! He will more than likely just work for now. Possibly a trade school sometime in the next year or two, but mostly just putting his head down, working and saving money. I think he will try to work construction. Up here, you can pretty much call the shots with any place of employment. So many businesses looking for help! One of the boys told me the other day that they know a 14 year old that is making $20 an hour working at DQ! That is just wrong!!!!
Jacob started his job today. He will be working at a hardware store/lumber yard. A job perfect for him. With his sports, etc, I think they will be able to work with him and hopefully it will be a great job throughout high school!
We are plodding along!
Shortly after we started going to the new gym, Jacob met a guy that played D 1 football at our university and same position that Jacob currently plays. Jacob come home that day and told me he met Jesse and Jesse said he would be willing to put Jacob through some workouts. Jacob was so pumped that he had met someone that had done exactly what Jacob would like to do. They have hit it off and Jesse is a great guy! They don't get together as often as Jacob would like, but probably 2-3 times a week.
I got this picture recently. Jesse is on the right. I forgot to ask Jacob how much he was squatting but looks like it is around 175! That is a strong kid. They recently started doing some spring football footwork, etc and he said several of the coaches commented on how much better he is moving. Between all the weights and the pick up basketball he plays at the gym, he is in great shape.
Joseph is killing it at the gym too! He is getting stronger and faster and starting to play basketball with the old guys some days! I think he would like to get into more weightlifting but I really would like for him to wait another year or two.
Benjamin is coasting right now. So ready to be done! Still no clue on future plans, but I am sure they are coming! A while ago he gave me a list of movies that he thought I should watch. I started four different ones and just really struggled getting through them (I am very particular in what I watch). So recently Benjamin came to me and told me he had another movie for me. I was very skeptical but decided to watch it. He told me it was now one of his favorite movies and that I was gonna be shocked. I started the movie and within about 3 minutes I found him in his room and said "seriously, you watched all of this...". I was floored. He just grinned and said 'yep'. This is yet one more indicator that my boy is growing up. (The first indicator was when he took me to an art gallery and we walked around for 30 minutes as he commented on everything). The movie he raved about.....LaLa Land!!! I love it! Another indicator recently of him 'maturing' was we went out to eat and he ordered a Brussel Sprout salad. I have never cooked brussel sprouts but he ate every bite of his salad!
It is spring time, which means we never know what the weather will do. Tomorrow is suppose to be sunny and 75 and then the next day snowing and high of 40!
This kid loves to get behind the wheel. All in all doing pretty good, but have had a few close calls, which means learning lessons! He is almost at 25% of his driving hours. His test is already scheduled for Sept 29 to get his actual license. Nothing happening yet on his job front. Sure hope something surfaces soon! He is spending up to 3-4 hours a day at the gym. He has created these crazy workouts that he puts his friends through and then he will get into some pick up basketball games for an hour or two. Sure beats being in front of screen.
I recently was flipping through a book on my bookshelf and found a piece of paper in it. On the paper I had written down some numbers from a few years ago, when we had considered moving. I was trying to figure out what we would sell our house for, minus commissions and what we owed plus what we would spend on a new place and what a new mortgage would look like. I had projected selling our place for 215k! I remember those days and our house is now almost double that. Still a huge, crazy housing market here. According to Zillow our place appreciated 28K in February. I anticipate things cooling off in other parts of the country, but not here. Our community is in crisis mode, trying to revamp city budgets, figure out infrastructure, etc. We are just booming!
We are down to 8 weeks left of school and about 6.5 until graduation! Ben is still holding his cards pretty close to his chest as to his plans after graduation. I guess I will be just as surprised as everyone else when he announces his plans!
A year ago today....Feb 18, 2021. I spent my first night in the hospital as a parent with Jacob and his broken femur. Seems so long ago!!!
Joseph and I recently took a 3 hour drive to one of Jacob's basketball games. This was our view.
On the way back, we stopped at a 'middle of nowhere' bar and grill for a burger and this was my view.
Winter rolls on. It has been a very weird winter for weather. Huge swings from really cold, to lots of snow and then warm weather and lots of snow melting!
Jacob has hit the ski slopes 6 times already. I asked him if he had hit the jump yet that he broke his femur on and he said no. It is much bigger this year and he figured he would wait until after basketball season is over, so he doesn't risk anything. Smart move J!!!
The last four games the freshman have struggled on the basketball court. Losing a few games but just one or two points. They started the season with 10 players. One almost immediately got sidelined due to a surgery, making it 9. A freshman who had moved away but came back then made it 10. Two are now out due to failing grades and one broke their foot last week, so they are down to 7 players. Means a lot more playing time for everyone, but also really stretches them on the court with not as much rest time.
We are down to the last semester of Ben's high school career. Still no definite plans, but when asked, his answer is probably the work force. He really would love to do some international traveling, but with everything so up in the air, I told him he is better off hunkering down and working and saving money. One of his restaurant jobs is starting to see quite a bit of upheaval with management and control plays. It has been a great learning lesson for him to see how a well run establishment looks versus one without strong leadership/communication. Will be interesting to see how things unfold as higher up corporate people are getting involved. I have told him to take the high road and keep his nose clean.
My Turo cars are really picking up. Sure wish we had had some cash laying around to buy a car and get in on the rental car activity. As the cars have been listed, it is interesting to see how you make slight changes in prices/accessories and all of a sudden the cars are rented out for weeks. Our airport in 2021 saw almost 2 million passengers!!! Considering we only have just over a million in the whole state, that is a lot of travelers. They had to scramble at Christmas time and find/create over 500 parking spaces in outlying fields. Just nuts around here!!
I have a friend heading out of town for several months and I am going to keep an eye on her place. Thinking I will take some of my projects to her place so I can leave them out and pop in and out to work on them. A quiet place to retreat will be nice. Also looking at a weekend away later in February with a friend, staying in state. Then late April traveling eastward and meeting a few other friends for a ladies retreat.
JR is looking at several trips this spring and summer. We of course will party with Ben's graduation early June! Jacob will have several football camps this summer, as well as working and Joseph, really need to get him plugged in to something!!!
Just some pictures!
I am so glad Benjamin is starting to see the value in pictures and not always hiding from the camera! The last two were pictures taken when he had gone to work with JR one day.
I just checked out for a bit. Probably more like not a lot of motivation, for some reason.
The second weekend of December Benjamin and I made a surprise trip out to Ohio for a long weekend. It was a huge success and we pulled off the epic surprise. We caught an Uber from the airport so literally surprised everyone. I was able to see the whole Ohio clan, minus one niece who was in Arizona taking finals! Finally got to experience the annual Ohio Christmas party, made a quick road trip to Michigan to see another niece and her kids and Ben was excited to hit Top Golf.
Some December pictures!
We have had a very quiet month. Even during the break, we all slept in and just hung out. I attempted a few times to get something going, but between Ben's work and Jacob's basketball commitments, hard to nail down time to get away.
The rest of the winter is looking pretty quiet too. Jacob has basketball most days and the days there is not basketball, he is hitting the ski slopes. Benjamin is still working 4-5 shifts a week. Joseph and I just chill at home and JR is just shoveling snow. Won't be long before things pick up for Benjamin with senior stuff. Preparations are already underway for the graduation party!! The countdown is on!
Waiting for the snow to melt so we can have more sandboxes and popsicles.